A Prayer for SIL, Day 45 4-15-26

Jesus, her attitude lately is exactly what Paul preached against. I pray that You speak to her, convict her when she strays from Your way.

Those of crooked heart are an abomination to the LORD, but those of blameless ways are his delight. Proverbs 2:20

A man of crooked heart does not discover good, and one with a dishonest tongue falls into calamity. Proverbs 17:20

Do not be conformed to this world  Romans 12:2a

Are we to continue in sin that grace may abound? By no means! How can we who died to sin still live in it? Romans 6:1-2

Working together with him then we appeal to you not to receive the grace of God in vain 2 Corinthians 6:1a

Lord, Your Word explains why she may be experiencing the problems that she is. I pray that You open her eyes to where she stands. She knows the difference between Your way and the world’s way, but somehow she’s not aware that she has strayed away from Your side. I pray that she cooperates with Your Spirit as You call her back to You. Convict her heart each time she lies or cheats or steals, including when she does so to herself. Lying to herself that Your conviction is not what it is or that what she does is not that bad, cheating herself of Your blessings, and stealing Your glory for the things You are doing. Lord, open her eyes and heart to the Truth found only in You.

In Your Grace,

Amen.

A Prayer for SIL, Day 44

Jesus, may Your Spirit minister to SIL as she sleeps tonight. Bring her hurt parts into good health. Remove her hardened heart and replace it with a soft heart that is focused on You.

I will sprinkle clean water on you, and you shall be clean from all your uncleanness, and from all your idols I will cleanse you. And I will give you a new heart, and a new spirit I will put within you. And I will remove the heart of stone from your flesh and give you a heart of flesh. And I will put my Spirit within you and cause you to walk in my statues and be careful to obey my rules. Ezekiel 36:25-27

Lord, as SIL responds to Your Spirit, I pray You clean her, remove her hard heart and give her a heart of flesh so that she will walk in Your way and she will be careful to obey Your rules.

In Your Cleansing Name,

Amen.

A Prayer for SIL, Day 43

Jesus, fill SIL’s dreams and heart with Your presence. Show her the truth and give her the strength that she needs to act on it.

For the LORD has ransomed Jacob and has redeemed him from hands too strong for him. Jeremiah 31:11

Jesus, You died to ransom us. I pray that You show SIL the truth of that, and that You are her redeemer no matter how strong she holds on to what binds her.

They shall come and sing aloud on the height of Zion, and they shall be radiant over the goodness of the LORD, over the grain, the wine, and the oil, and over the young of the flock and the herd; their life shall like a watered garden, and they shall languish no more. Jeremiah 31:12

Lord, I pray that SIL will come to You and sing aloud in Your presence. I pray that she will be radiant over Your goodness and over all that You have given her. May her life be like a watered garden, rich and growing with life, and may she languish no more.

In Your Good Name,

Amen.

A Prayer for SIL, Day 42

Lord, I lift up SIL to You. Only You know what she needs. I may think I do. She may think she does. But we can only guess. We can’t see things like You can. We trust You. Bring about the things that need to be addressed. Reveal the hidden things. Show her what You want her to see. Open her heart – or knock on it until she opens it to You – that You may heal her completely from the past as You dine together.

Behold, I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears my voice and opens the door, I will come in to him and eat with him , and he with me. Revelation 3:20

Do not be conformed, but be transformed… Romans 12:2a

Lead her to transform her thoughts. Put people, videos, commercials, etc. in front of her to tell her what You want her to know and what You want her to do. Lead her all the way to perfect health.

In Your Wisdom,

Amen.

A Prayer for SIL, Day 41

Jesus, I lift SIL up to You again. Hold her in Your arms. Heal her scars and the hidden festering wounds that bind her. Fill her need to be loved with Your love. Give her the strength to act on the things she should or needs to do.

So as to walk in a manner worthy of the Lord, fully pleasing to him, bearing fruit in every good work and increasing in the knowledge of God; being strengthened with all power, according to his glorious might, for all endurance and patience with joy. Colossians 1:10-11

God, I pray that SIL will walk in a manner worthy of You, fully pleasing to You, bearing fruit in every good work and increasing in the knowledge of You. May she be strengthened with all power, according to Your glorious might. And may she endure with patience and joy.

In Your Glorious Might,

Amen.

Life is Like Enlarging a Fish Pond, Part 9 – Tadpoles

As the murky water cleared in my new pond and I was able to look down through the water, I was dismayed to find a bunch of  leaves and muck on the bottom. I had tried so carefully to prevent anything from falling into the water while working on it, so where did all this stuff come from? And how do I get rid of it?

I know that a little muck is beneficial for the fish and plant life, but I didn’t like seeing it. Apparently I wasn’t alone. Some people get rid of the muck by draining the pond and getting inside to scrub the lining and rocks. That wasn’t going to happen in my case, but I did have a pool vacuum which other people mentioned that they used. However, a larger group of people said to leave it, at least for this year. Next year I would have to clean out some of it but for now, just enjoy the pond as it is.

I spent several days debating which group of people to follow. Clean it out or leave it in until later?

And then I noticed something that made my decision easier for me. Tadpoles. Hundreds of tadpoles. Maybe even thousands throughout the entire pond. Tiny squishy spots that swam from place to place. No way could I vacuum the muck without vacuuming up these babies. I decided that I will wait until they are mature frogs and find their own places to live before I get rid of the muck.

Jesus once told a parable about a similar situation. A man sowed good seed in his field but while his men were sleeping, his enemy sowed weeds among the wheat. When the plants came up and bore grain, the weeds also appeared. The workers asked whether to pull up the weeds but the man said that it would harm the wheat so let them grow. When the wheat is harvested, the weeds could be easily separated and burned. Jesus later explained that He was the man who sowed His people in the kingdom of God. But the devil sowed his followers in with them. At harvest time, the angels will separate out the lawless ones from the Believers and cast them in a fiery furnace.

In today’s world, we see two groups of people. Those who are living for God and those who aren’t. Removing the ones who aren’t might damage those who are so God lets them stay until the time is right. He protects His people even if that means others appear to get away with sin. But at the right time, they will pay for their sin.

Fret not yourself because of evildoers; be not envious of wrongdoers! For they will soon fade like the grass and wither like the green herb. Trust in the LORD and do good; dwell in the land and befriend faithfulness. Psalm 37:1-3

For the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus, our Lord. Romans 6:23

Just like He told His angels not to remove the weeds in case it hurt the wheat. I chose not to remove the muck in case it hurt the tadpoles. A little muck doesn’t overcome the beauty of the flowers that surround the pond, the mesmerizing ripples of the water flowing over pebbles, the peaceful splash of the waterfalls, and the joyful fun of watching the tadpoles grow and develop.

I wonder if that’s what God thinks when He looks down from heaven at us.

Matthew 13:24-30, 36-43

He put another parable before them, saying, “The kingdom of heaven may be compared to a man who sowed good seed in his field, but while his men were sleeping, his enemy came and sowed weeds among the wheat and went away. So when the plants came up and bore grain, then the weeds appeared also. And the servants of the master of the house came and said to him, ‘Master, did you not sow good seed in your field? How then does it have weeds?’ He said to them, ‘An enemy has done this.’ So the servants said to him, ‘Then do you want us to go and gather them?’ But he said, ‘No, lest in gathering the weeds you root up the wheat along with them. Let both grow together until the harvest, and at harvest time I will tell the reapers, “Gather the weeds first and bind them in bundles to be burned, but gather the wheat into my barn.”’”

Then he left the crowds and went into the house. And his disciples came to him, saying, “Explain to us the parable of the weeds of the field.” He answered, “The one who sows the good seed is the Son of Man. The field is the world, and the good seed is the sons of the kingdom. The weeds are the sons of the evil one, and the enemy who sowed them is the devil. The harvest is the end of the age, and the reapers are angels. Just as the weeds are gathered and burned with fire, so will it be at the end of the age. The Son of Man will send his angels, and they will gather out of his kingdom all causes of sin and all law-breakers, and throw them into the fiery furnace. In that place there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth. Then the righteous will shine like the sun in the kingdom of their Father. He who has ears, let him hear.

A Prayer for SIL, Day 40

Lord, as I observe SIL’s behavior, and the changes she says she’s trying to make, it seems as if she is sliding backwards. I pray that You take her hand and pull her forwards. And that You take her heart and restore it to what You created. Heal her from what has caused her to feel unloved, and turn her to look to You instead of to people to fill her needs. Show her the depth of Your love for her but also the constant, real presence of it. If she is separated from You by sin or unforgiveness, I pray that You make it clear to her that it’s due to something she needs to repent from and not because You don’t love her, Clean her up and hold her in Your arms – hold her close so she can relax in Your embrace and be willing to be cleaned.

Create in me a new heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within me. Cast me not away from your presence, and take not your Holy Spirit from me. Restore to me the joy of your salvation and uphold me with a willing spirit. Psalm 51:10-12

In Your Strong Arms,

Amen.

A Prayer for SIL, Day 39 

Sweet Jesus, continue to speak to SIL’s heart. Call her back when she starts to stray. Infuse her with motivation and energy to do the things she should. Thank You for all that You are doing in her. I pray she remains yielded to You and increasingly so as Your love penetrates her defenses and the scars and lies that keep her bound.

And we all, with unveiled faces, beholding the glory of the Lord, are being transformed into the same image from one degree of glory to another. For this comes from the Lord who is the Spirit. 2 Corinthians 3:18

Lord, as SIL gazes on You with an unveiled face, free her from the blindness that deception brings, and as she beholds Your glory, may she be transformed into that same image step by step. For this comes from Your Spirit who lives in her.

In Your Glorious Name,

Amen.

A Prayer for SIL, Day 38

Lord, I don’t have any words tonight. I’ve prayed them all. You love SIL. May Your will concerning her be done.

Do not be conformed to this world but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect. Romans 12:2

Jesus, I ask that You call SIL to You, that You remind her to renew her mind so that she will no longer conform to this world. Teach her how to test her thoughts and actions against the Bible so that she will be able to discern what Your will is. Open her eyes to what is good and acceptable and perfect to You, and give her the strength to choose You over herself or the world.

In Your Perfect Name,

Amen.

A Prayer for SIL, Day 37

Lord, I pray for SIL tonight. Minister to her while she sleeps. Stroke her tightly clenched fist so she can relax and let go to You the things she is grasping so tightly. Fill her dreams with your love so that she seeks it from You and not from wrong places. Fill the need in her to be loved so she is free to love others without demanding, expecting, or needing to be loved in return. Heal the pain in her heart, the scars from the past, and the fears for tomorrow. Lord, I pray that she casts her cares on to You – not so that she can live in denial but that she can live in the security of Your love.

Casting all your anxieties on him because he cares for you. 1 Peter 6:7

In Your Gentle Love,

Amen.